Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Finally, the post about Cebu

In the process of trying to put off making one long post about our Cebu trip, I've wound up putting so many photos online in an effort to placate you all that I finally decided just to go ahead and do it and make a post. I will still put the photos up on Flickr, however, later on.

First, the back story.

It is Tsien family tradition to get together for Chinese New Year going back as far as I can remember. CNY is the biggest holiday for Chinese people and would be like if you combined Thanksgiving and Christmas (food, presents and family) with Fourth of July (fireworks, family and more food).

It's a big deal.

In the past few years, we've celebrated without my sister Joy's family because they had developed a tradition of going skiing with a group of their own friends in Japan during the CNY holiday. My mom and other sisters don't do skiing.

Unfortunately for Joy, the group that they usually go with decided that skiing was getting expensive and that they were going to go somewhere warm, now, instead, and chose Cebu, which is an island in the south of the Philippines. This opened up the possibility of the rest of us crashing her party. :) So fun.

Cebu has interesting history, actually. It's where Magellan was killed during his effort to circumnavigate the globe. In fact, our resort was located in a town named after the man who commanded the local forces during the battle in which Magellan was killed, Lapu-Lapu. Lapu-Lapu is widely considered the Philippines first national hero. Score one for the natives. Fun stuff.

In fact, there are historical sites scattered around that would interest the historically minded traveler.

We, however, simply stayed at the resort and didn't go out.

Day 1

The trip over was easy. Just over two hours, direct to Cebu, and from the airport, 20 minutes or so to the resort. It was Margaret's first trip and we were very concerned. As it turns out, our concerns were misplaced.

Below, you see her on the plane, in her bassinet, happy as a clam. Usually, the lay flat seats are in First Class and cost tons more. Too bad for her, she's going to grow out of the bassinets in no time.



What you see above her is her pacifier hanging from the shade of the bassinet in place of a hanging toy. It worked.

Due to scheduling vagaries, the Taipei Tsiens arrived the day before us and were already settled in. My mom, Philip and Nicky met us in the lobby and hung out with us for awhile before letting us get settled in and feed and bathe Margaret. In this photo from the sneak preview, you can see us bathing her in the rather deep hotel sink which did not work as well as we would have liked.



You can't tell from the photo, but there was a lot of screaming. We resolved to use the tub next time.

We had dinner that night at the hotel coffee shop which was just an easy way to unwind after the travel. There were many burgers ordered as Sarah discovered during her lunch that they were very delicious at the coffee shop.




In the corner of the top photo, you can see our new stroller which was Margaret's RV during this trip. It was a primo hand me down from Joannie who had brought a veritable treasure trove of baby things ranging from the stroller, to breast milk bags to toys that she must have been storing for the past five years. Thanks, Joannie!

Day 2

On Day 2, I went for a dive in the morning while Joy, Gayle, Philip and Joey took a brief orientation on SCUBA diving to prepare for a dive that afternoon.

During the afternoon lunch break, we actually tried to get Margaret wet.

Here you see the result from Margaret's first swim ever.



Only the Bush administration could have possibly considered categorizing it as a success.

There was, however, an opportunity for some cute, "not amused" shots of Margaret as a result.





The dive in the afternoon with Gayle, Joy, Joey and Philip went well. The kids had a blast. The hotel is on a strip of protected water and reef, so there were tons of fish which we fed with leftover rolls from the hotel. Here you see the intrepid divers post DSD - or "Discover Scuba Dive" for those in the know.



After that, it was time to hit the beach!




Margaret didn't so much enjoy the beach. But we still did. We're sure (we hope) she'll grow to love crystal clear waters, blue sky and soft sand once she's older.

Margaret's day ended with a bath, which she enjoyed much more while sitting in the bathtub with daddy, rather than the sink.



The big kids spent the rest of the evening having dinner and playing cards where Uncle John, despite doing his best to lose money to the kids during traditional Chinese New Year gambling, ended the evening up. If only it were like that in 'Vegas.

Day 3 - Chinese New Year

Day 3 started with some of us sleeping in and enjoying the big, fluffy hotel bed even though she had her own hotel crib complete with fluffy pillow and meticulously made sateen hotel sheets.



Then, it was off for a morning dive with Philip and Joey while Andrew did a separate SCUBA training class for younger kids.



Lunch with the family was followed by a swim with Margaret during which she responded much better than on the first day.



You can see video footage from the below pool session in yesterdays video blog post.






Pool time was followed by a family dinner, then an evening of gambling in my mom's room. The kids had a great time and with Auntie Gayle dealing, they earned some more money as well.







Day 4

This was our second to last day, but my mom's last day due to their wish to catch a direct flight back to Taipei.



Mom and Margaret shared a quiet moment in the room before breakfast. The coffee shop was completely swamped, and so we were glad for the quiet moment. That didn't stop Margaret from attracting the attention of the whole family, however!




We spent the rest of the morning before the Taipei crew left together in my mother's room.






We were all sad to part company, and did so with great reluctance.

The one consolation was that that is the mark of a truly successful vacation.



Of course, I took the afternoon to go diving again (guilt free, now, as my mom was all gone), after which I definitely felt like I was a bit tingly from all that nitrogen.

Then, after a decadent room service lunch of hamburgers with my wife (room service was always strictly off limits as a child - it was something only rich people did), we took Margaret on her last swim of the holiday.



Some of you may remember this picture from yesterday.



What you don't see is that I spent most of the "swim" holding Margaret, with Sarah admonishing me every thirty seconds to, "be careful, her mouth is almost in the water!"

HA!



Success!

She stayed in the water for a long time and we even went up and down the pool a few times. Waterboarding our daughter aside, I would consider this a successful introduction of our daughter to a life of leisure in and around the pool.

Dinner was a date night (sorry, no photos) with just the three of us at "Cowrie Cove," the hotel's hip, swinging seafood bar / restaurant. Very romantic.

Day 5

The final few hours of our stay in Cebu went quickly. We had breakfast not at the hotel coffee shop, but at the Italian restaurant, Aqua which was less crowded because fewer people knew it actually served breakfast.

Here you see Margaret in her stroller at breakfast.



They didn't have the honey ham I loved at the coffee shop, but beggars can't be choosers at five star resort hotels, I suppose.

Then, it was back to the room to pack and we were off to the airport.






Now we're back in Hong Kong. Cold, smoggy Hong Kong with only the memories of Cebu to keep us warm.

The good news is that it looks like the whole family wants to go back next year. The quality of the resort and the fact that it's only a couple of hours away both recommend the place.

That's good for us! We can continue with Margaret's education on how to love the beach and I can get some more diving in.

But I think it'll only be fun if Joy and her friends are here as well. It definitely wouldn't be as much fun if it were our own vacation!

Monday, February 11, 2008

Some pics to tide you over

Hi Team,

I know that the pictures are slow in coming, but it's a matter of having enough time to sort, cull, edit and post them as well has having to write descriptions, not to mention doing the video, settling back into home life and running a number of errands today!

So to reward your patience, just a few more of Margaret to tide you over until I have some more time to post the photos. I'm hoping tomorrow, but no guarantees.

Taking a photo break from the gambling that is traditional for CNY to usher in good luck.


Margaret with Mommy


Margaret with Daddy


Standing tall in a new dress!


Having breakfast the morning the Taipei Tsien's left


The happy family!

Chinese New Year in Cebu

We've been back for a few days now and I've been spending my time busily cutting together a brief video of our trip.

For those of you who don't know, Sarah, Margaret and I went to Cebu in the Philippines for our Chinese Lunar New Year break. We were there with basically my entire family and we had a great time enjoying the sunshine and resort living.

Some of you have been asking for photos - and they're coming. I promise. But I just have to come up with a way to efficiently show them on the blog. During my first look cull, I wound up with 58 photos that I wanted to show off. That's way too many for the blog so I thought I'd focus on the video first.

I'm sorry about the quality - there's a 100 MB limit on the file size which puts a crimp on the quality I can post at.



I'm back to work tomorrow. I took today (Monday) off in order to spend some quiet time with my own family.

All I can say is that I loved today. We spent much of the day at home and Sarah and I were out for a few hours in the afternoon to run errands. However, the highlight was going out to dinner with Sarah with Margaret strapped to my chest in the Baby Bjorn.

It was but a few hours out today, and the food was awful, but as I think back, it was really the highlight of the day and felt like an entire vacation in and of itself. We took the ferry across the harbor to a part of town we'd never been to before and explored a bit before having an early dinner and heading home.

It sure messed up Margaret's feeding / sleep schedule (she's still crying intermittently from her crib now at almost 9:00 PM) but in so many ways, I'm glad to have had that time with my family.

Now, Sarah and I are having quiet time in our cozy living room. It's the best feeling in the world. Baby in her room, Sarah at my side. Everyone should know this happiness that is mine.

Saturday, February 09, 2008

Cebu Trip Sneak Preview

Hi Team Margaret!

We're at the end of our Chinese New Year Cebu Trip and are in the airport waiting lounge where there's free wifi!

To celebrate our return home, I thought we'd quickly post a sneak preview of some trip pics before the computer battery runs down.

Enjoy!

Bathtime in the big hotel sink


Big hotel beds are good for little babies, too!


Looking good in resort wear!


Swimming with Mommy and Daddy. Keep her mouth out of the water!

Sunday, February 03, 2008

Bathtime and Talking

Lotta' posts today. This is the third one in the past 7 hours so don't forget to scroll down.

Margaret's development continues to astound us. Or, at least keep her self congratulatory parents full of pride at something we have absolutely no control over.

The past couple of days have seen her "vocabulary" grow by leaps and bounds and she continues to get more and more verbal so that we feel like we're having real conversations with her.

Who knows how much real communicating she's actually intentionally initiating but it sounds good to us! I have to catch myself, sometimes and remind myself that, no, she's not really talking and that she's just babbling so that she can eventually learn to talk.

But with a wife as linguistically talented as SAM is, it's hard not to think that maybe, just maybe Margaret is a genius!

Video below.



Also, I took some photos before, during and after Margaret's bath today.

She had her bath at around 5:30 pm and the late afternoon sunlight was just streaming into the bedroom so I couldn't resist.

She's going to hate me for these when she's 13, but I don't care.



Household Improvements

As the weekend draws to a close (it's Sunday evening as I write this), SAM and I are relaxing in comfortably improved household circumstances compared to last week.

Not only has SAM taken the week to continue to improve our organization and put things away, but we spent both Saturday and today looking for a few last items to complete the home we've moved into.



The first major organizational coup was that SAM managed to repurpose some old Ikea, "Lekman" storage containers we were about to throw away into shelving units for her and my sweaters.

Above, you can see that they fit fairly nicely into the vertical nook that we're not sure what our landlords used for when they lived here.



On Monday, SAM went to a second hand baby shop in our old neighborhood with our friend Lindsay and scored a previously owned but never used crib. It was delivered on Thursday as you know, and we are very happy with it. It's got the one handed opening gate on both sides and should last Margaret for a good while.

Of course, I'm sure she'll be growing out of this sooner then we expect.

Finally, we spent the past couple of days working on the living room.

After moving in, we found that we had two issues with the living room. One was lighting and the other was floor covering. A few days after moving in, we transferred the rug from our old living room into Margaret's room to warm that up (and to kill the echo in there) which left our living room floor bare and rather cold.

SAM spent some time the past week cruising Ikea to try to find solutions to both issues but didn't find anything she liked.

So Saturday, we spent the afternoon at "Horizon Plaza" a 20 story factory building converted into a huge vertical home goods shopping center. With store directory in hand, we marked every store listed under "Carpets and Rugs" and went to work.

While our original intent was to buy something simple and affordable, by the time we walked out of our second Oriental rug dealer, our original plan (and budget) were blown. Our new goal was to find a nice 5 x 8 ft oriental rug which we could both love (at that price, you better love it). It made the list of stores to visit shorter, I suppose.

Well, two cups of coffee and a few hours later, we had seen many rugs that we liked individually but none that we really could get on board as a team.

At least we left Horizon Plaza with two Chinese porcelain lamps which you can see in the below photo.



Today, armed with another couple of rug dealers' addresses, we set out again.

Miraculously, we saw the one we wound up getting at the first place we went to. The second place was closed, so we took it as a sign and went back.

After a brief bout of bargaining, we took home what you see in the pictures.



It's not the perfect match for our furniture, but we both like the rug. We figure we'll have it for years so we can get new furniture if we can't get used to it.

In the meantime, we'll have something warm beneath our feet that we both like to look at. Life is good.

Ubi2

Some of you have noticed that we've been giving a lot of coverage to Margaret's many playtime friends but that Ubi2 has been noticeably absent from the blog.

Unfortunately, this is because Ubi2 is so busy helping us to take care of Margaret that she hasn't had much time for play in the same way that Margaret's other friends do.

Below, you can see the indefatigable Ubi2 giving Margaret her 10:00 pm feed last night while Mommy and Daddy were having Saturday date night.



A true lifesaver, Ubi2, is.

Saturday, February 02, 2008

The Warm Heart of Our Winter

As we close in on Chinese New Year, the weather has been getting quite cold at times. Many of you may scoff at our 7 degree Celsius (45 F) weather. The fact that it is damp and that most people don't have heat (luckily, we do) makes it feel quite chilly. Today, the cold was combined with rain which made it raw and disgusting outside.

Luckily, Margaret keeps us warm through her smiles, the sounds she makes and just about anything she does. It's soooo great.

Many of you remember early video of me giving her a bath. The tub makes it way easier. Highly recommended.



Today with mommy during her late AM feed


Getting ready to go out - bundled up for HK weather!


She's all ears!


Why we had a baby

Friday, February 01, 2008

She did it again!

New crib and she still slept through the night.

My alarm is set to go off at 7:00 AM. At 6:59, I wake up to hear, "She did it again."

In fact, the only reason she woke up is because Sam went in and brought her into our bedroom to feed her. I think she'd be good for another half hour to hour at least if we didn't wake her.

We'll see what happens tomorrow.

We're hoping that this becomes a pattern.